“You do not know what will happen tomorrow.For what is your life? It is a vapor that appears for a little time,and then vanishes away.”
-James 4:-14 (NKJV)
“Life is short.” Boy we hear those three words a lot these days don’t we? We hear them in songs, we hear them in commercials, and we hear them in movies. We hear them everywhere. And while the phrase sounds cliché, it’s true. Life is short. My son Matthew and I were in the van the other day, and for some unknown reason, had tuned in the radio to a country western station. There was a song playing that made both of us stop and think. I couldn’t tell you the name of the song or who was singing it, but one thing I do remember is something the artist was repeating over and over. It went something like this:
“I was six years old and one day I took a nap. When I woke up I was thirty-six and it happened… just like that!”
Matthew piped up right away asking the obvious question: “Dad? Why did that guy say he was six years old when he took a nap and when he woke up, he was thirty-six? How’s that possible?”(“Pretty smart for a seven year-old, I thought to myself”) I then replied that it wasn’t really possible.The guy wasn’t really thirty-six after he woke up. It just seemed like it. I continued:
“For instance Matthew, it seems like just yesterday that you were born and now here you are seven years old and asking questions far beyond your years. Man, life is short!”
The whole point of this story is that…life is short. We do not know what will happen tomorrow. We do not know when our lives on this earth will come to an end. I am not trying to sound morbid or depressing or make you fearful in any way. I just want you to stop and think about that for a moment. So many times we find ourselves wishing that we could turn back the clock; that we could say all the things we didn’t say until it was too late. Let’s not live like that. Let’s not wait until tomorrow to tell those special people in our lives that we love them and appreciate them. Let’s lend that helping hand, offer that listening ear, and give that word of encouragement while there’s still time to do so. If we’ll do that, when our life here on earth is over and our mortal bodies may “vanish away” like “a vapor”, our spirits, and the fond memories others have of us never will.
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